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Sure, putting on the LTR badge can be scary LTR means long-term relationshipfor those of you not familiar with dating app speak. Because it actually helps you overall. In fact, fewer than 1 in 10 young Americans have never married and say they do not want to get married, according to Gallup. That is … as long as you say it right. After all, your fears could be true in some cases. For example, saying you want a relationship might come off as needy to some people.
Or, women who only want to casually date might swipe left once they see that. Still, there are ways to say you want a relationship that will make it work in your favor. In the dating world, most women typically want a relationship. Not all of them, obviously, but more so than not. So if you actually want one too, why hide that fact? Saying you want a relationship in your profile demonstrates that you know what you want, as long as you are specific.
Let me explain.
Demonstrating that you are selective instills a sense of competition in a woman and makes her subconsciously compete for your affections. I dated a guy during my Date Experiment who said this and I liked it for a couple of reasons. For one thing, it challenged me as a woman. They have a little bit of contempt for guys who are just playing the field indefinitely. In other words, she will respect you.
This makes her feel more secure about you as a possible choice. But once you get the attention of women who want a relationship too and maybe even meet your criteria, you want to make sure the rest of your profile holds up.
Do you have examples of yourself looking smart, cute, driven, fun, and thoughtful? If so, this tells you that your photos are competitive enough to use on your profile. If not, ditch them and take more competitive photos. If you say you want women who are smart, did you list any of your own favorite books?
Maybe a podcast or something else to show your intellectual side? Aside from a phrase like the ones above, you should also add language that speaks directly to the type of woman you want to attract. So find specific words that resonate with that type of person, and incorporate them. Try adding one sentence in your profile that speaks directly to your audience. Then add one sentence that speaks very specifically about you. Lastly, add one sentence that makes her laugh.
Some people view quotes as cop-outs, and they could be, but they can tell a lot about a person.
Maybe people just looking for flings, sure. When it comes down to it, everybody wants a real connection, to have a nice day, or to be happy. Hire a coach like myself who can help you craft the perfect delivery. The last thing you want to do is put something on your profile that subtly turns women off or gives the wrong impression, and then have that be seen by hundreds of prospects before you can correct it. The dating world can really make us overthink every move we make. In my experience, the best approach to getting what you want from your dating life is to be direct.
Narrowing the playing field and appealing to your target audience, especially when it comes to online dating, attracts a much better pool of prospects than if you decide to hide certain facts about yourself. Saying you want a relationship will help guarantee that dating will be fun!
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